The Boardroom Beat #22 - The F word

董事会节拍 #22-F字

2023-05-24 17:00 GALA

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If you think exploring “Fun” is too fluffy for executive coaching, guess again. With startling frequency executives include the fun factor as they contemplate “next.” They have achieved gravitas, solidified their leadership style, mentored a legion of other talent. By conventional mores they have hit the success benchmarks. But a niggling alter ego in their psyche whispers that there is something more. I regularly partner with leaders making middle to late stage career decisions who delve into questions of the heart and of the spirit; “Do I enjoy my role, my life, my contributions?” Fun is Fine Fun is not Frivolous. Research cited in Harvard Business Review* attests that Fun has a positive correlation to engagement, creativity, and purpose — thus increasing employee retention and reducing turnover. Senior leaders are arriving in droves at the realization that life choices are best made with consideration of fun and purposeful impact. At a more ethereal level the pursuit is sustainable joy, but the ability to have Fun is the admission ticket; To a penchant for fun add a helping of purpose and and voilà - you have the recipe for joy. Pick your Flavour Fun is personal. Sometimes I watch an hour of “dumb” TV. When I LOL uproariously at something banal it occurs to me that “I must have really needed that laugh.” What refreshes and restores you? What energizes? What draws a smile? Some ideas…. • See a comedy show/opera/world wresting entertainment match • Walk instead of uber. • Dance. Anywhere, anytime. • Sign up for DuoLingo. • Oh, and do a DuoLingo lesson. But turn off guilt inducing notifications. • Have a good laugh. • Watch a TV show your family used to watch together when you were growing up. • Indulge in a hobby. • Hang out with a friend. • Make an impractical choice. • Nurture a relationship. • Road trip. • Stretch. • Write a letter, the kind that requires a postal stamp. • Take a Gals or Guys weekend. • Slip away and see a child you miss in their college or real life setting. • Volunteer in a kindergarten. • Try something awkward and new. Yoga? Curling? • Do something childish. Climb a Tree? • Reach out to a friend from a time warp ago. • Make a check on your bucket list. • Notice a pretty rock/flower/tree/landscape/skyline (you get the idea…notice) • Read a book not for self-improvement. • Share a google memory with someone who popped up in the “15 years ago today” photo feed. • Make a new memory with someone today. • Add dazzle to a room or self with a thrift shop treasure. • Go barefoot and feel the earth. • Plant something. • Find water and float. • Do a crossword/puzzle/sudoku • Volunteer at an animal shelter Just Freaking' DO IT This list is minuscule relative to the plethora of possibilities. Pick one, something, anything. Inertia is the enemy. Fun does not have to cost money; it doesn’t have to take much time. This article explores “Fun.” An ensuing one will delve into “Purpose.” My observation is that these are inexorably intertwined. The pursuit of Joy and Purpose lead to seismic life shifts. But don’t get overwhelmed by the universe of possibilities. Just choose fun in some simple way today. Author’s Note: I have an inordinate amount of fun with alliteration. I will write a letter (the kind that requires a stamp) and share this with a formative elementary grammar teacher. (With whom I have nurtured a longstanding relationship.)
如果你认为探索 “乐趣” 对于高管教练来说太蓬松了,那就再猜猜吧。随着令人吃惊的频率,高管们在思考 “下一个” 时包括了有趣的因素。他们取得了庄严的成就,巩固了他们的领导风格,指导了一大批其他人才。通过传统方式,他们已经达到了成功基准。但是在他们的心理中,一个微不足道的自我窃窃私语,说还有更多。我经常与做出中后期职业决策的领导者合作,这些领导者深入研究内心和精神问题; “我喜欢我的角色,我的生活,我的贡献吗?” 乐趣很好 乐趣不是轻浮的。《哈佛商业评论》中引用的研究证明,乐趣与敬业度,创造力和目标呈正相关关系,从而增加了员工的保留率并减少了营业额。高级领导人成群结队地意识到,生活选择最好考虑到乐趣和有目的的影响。在更空灵的层面上,追求是可持续的快乐,但获得乐趣的能力是入场券; 对乐趣的爱好增加了目标的帮助,瞧 -- 你有快乐的秘诀。 挑选你的味道 乐趣是个人的。有时我看一个小时的 “哑巴” 电视。当我对一些平庸的事情大笑时,我突然想到 “我一定真的需要那种笑声。” 什么让你耳目一新,让你恢复活力?什么能量?什么吸引了微笑?一些想法…。 • 看喜剧节目/歌剧/世界摔跤娱乐比赛 ·步行而不是优步。 跳舞。随时随地。 报名参加多林戈。 哦,去上一堂DuoLingo课。但是关掉诱导内疚的通知。 ·开怀大笑。 ·看一个电视节目,你的家人在你长大的时候曾经一起看。 沉迷于爱好。 和朋友一起出去玩。 做出不切实际的选择。 培养关系。 • 公路旅行。• 伸展。 写一封信,那种需要邮票的信。 周末带一个女孩或男人。 ·溜走,看到一个你在大学或现实生活中想念的孩子。 幼儿园的志愿者。 尝试一些尴尬和新的东西。瑜伽?冰壶? 做一些幼稚的事情。爬树? • 从时间扭曲前与朋友联系。 • 检查您的遗愿清单。 • 注意一个美丽的岩石/花/树/景观/天际线 (你得到的想法… 注意) 读一本书不是为了自我完善。 • 与出现在 “15年前的今天” 照片供稿中的人分享谷歌记忆。 今天和某人一起创造新的记忆。 • 用旧货店的宝藏为房间或自我增添炫目。 赤脚去感受地球。 种植一些东西。 找到水并漂浮。 做填字游戏/拼图/数独 在动物收容所做志愿者 只是奇怪的 '去做吧 相对于过多的可能性,此列表微不足道。挑一个,什么,什么。惯性是敌人。乐趣不必花钱; 它不必花费很多时间。 这篇文章探讨了 “乐趣”。随后的一篇文章将深入研究 “目的”。我的观察是,这些是不可避免地交织在一起的。对快乐和目标的追求导致了地震的生活转变。但是不要被各种可能性所淹没。今天就用一些简单的方式选择乐趣。 作者注: 我对头韵有太多的乐趣。我将写一封信 (需要盖章的那种),并与形成性的基础语法老师分享。(我与他建立了长期的关系。)

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